On the journey of life we need girlfriends. In every season of life girlfriends are necessary and sojourn with us through it all. Here are four types of girlfriends that are essential.
1. The Historian
She has been down with you since you were in grade school. She called your first crush on three-way and asked him if he liked you-while you sat and held your breath hoping he’d say, “Yes!”. She knows all of your crazy relatives and still considers herself a part of your family. You may live thousands of miles a part or just up the way- but if you need her she is there. Catching up is not necessary she knows you inside and out. One of my historians makes a point to check on my widowed mother and she does it with so much joy. The historian is a
grounding force and helps you to never forget where you came from.
grounding force and helps you to never forget where you came from.
2. The Youngin’
A youngin’ is amazingly refreshing. She can listen to your advice without competing with or comparing herself to you. The Youngin’ helps us understand our personal maturation process and enables you to appreciate lessons learned. The youngin’ is experiencing life and you get to usher her into the process of womanhood. Through her eyes you can experience a new emerging world of possibilities and experiences.
3. The Fellow Gladiator
The fellow gladiator is close in age and you share current life experiences. You have lived some of the same struggles and forgive without abandon.
4. The Pearl
The Pearl has decades on you, but is always willing to sit, listen, and offer insight. She doesn’t tell you what you want to hear, but what you need to know.
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